You're a Miracle (and a Pain in the Ass): Embracing the Emotions, Habits, and Mystery That Make You You

by Mike McHargue

I’ve learned to sit and be sad when I need to be sad, instead of deflecting or making a joke. I’ve also learned that when I feel anxious or guilty, those feelings are inhibiting something else. I take the time to ask, “What do I feel anxious about?”