When I headed to Planet Granite, I knew that I wanted to make room for fear, courage, and joy to coexist on the climb. It wasn’t until I was on the wall, climbing, that I realized other people can hold the courage and joy for you until you can find your own. I didn’t have to generate every ounce of what I needed by myself. I could expand my idea of what the container of my experience was—make it big enough to include those who had gone before me and those who were sharing it with me, even on the periphery.