One night in December 1989, she agreed to join Jewell at Bobi’s for dinner to celebrate his twenty-seventh birthday. After he picked up Nancy, Jewell confided to her that his mother thought they were dating. He hoped she didn’t mind. Inside the apartment, Jewell tried to show Bobi how close he and Nancy were by putting his arm around her and trying to hold her hand. It was all finally too much. Nancy ended the friendship and changed her phone number.