As a part of our literal-mindedness, many of us on the spectrum are sticklers for the truth. If someone asks for our opinion, we’re inclined to give it to them, unabridged, because we respect their intelligence. That said, there is a world of difference between honesty and unsolicited comments. I, like many a person with autism, have found this out the hard way. For Aspies, it’s good to remind ourselves to think before we speak. While it’s fine to be upfront with what you want from people, sometimes being too upfront can put people off. It’s all part of communication, which is something I, and
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