“First, you need to stop referring to yourself that way. In my opinion, you made some poor decisions (incredibly stupid decisions, I didn’t say) and by calling yourself a slut, you are basing your view of yourself, valuing your worth, on those decisions. But those decisions don’t make up for who you are. They are events. Memories. Mistakes. But they are only parts of Rainey, not all of her. Do you understand what I’m saying?”