8. State the issue as you see it. Give your perspective of the issue. Say, “This is the way I see it, please help me to understand.” Admit that maybe you misunderstood or got the wrong perspective. 9. Ask how you can help the person. Genuinely let the person know that you are only there to help him. Make sure the person understands your motive is out of love for him, not to hurt him. 10. Be confidential. Never betray a confidence. You will blow it every time and do much more damage if you share a confidence. 11. Pray for the person. Pray for the person right there. Let your prayer reflect your
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