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by
R.H. Sin
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January 1 - February 21, 2023
You feel it in your heart and even worse in your soul. All of this because your parents refused to let you know that you yourself are way too valuable to be dealing with some guy with some nerves with mostly pain in his words that sound like love at first. You feel it to your core, all because your parents refused to teach you and so these men would eventually teach you that you are unworthy of everything you actually deserve. All because your parents refused to teach you and so these men would eventually teach you to settle because what you’re looking for shouldn’t have been looked for.
The woman you chose to overlook and neglect decided to love herself rather than continue falling for someone who would never catch her.
I think there’s this part of you that will mean the world to the right person, but until then, you will always mean the world to yourself and there is nothing wrong with protecting your light from those who will only represent darkness.
weak men cheat weak men lie weak men make no effort weak men cause confusion weak men deserve none of you or anything you have to offer weak men will read this and be offended weak men will read this and never change stay away from weak men do not waste your strength on a man too weak to love you
i hope you find someone who hates hurting your heart
but no matter what storm may come you will always survive because you are more powerful than anything that arrives to break you
There is beauty waiting behind the curtain. There is an honest assortment of peacefulness living beyond the barriers and there is happiness awaiting you after the storm. Just a little bit longer now and you’ll be where you’re supposed to be and you’ll feel what you deserve to feel. Please, hold on.
there is something beautiful that lives in the heart of the girl with the broken smile there is something beautiful living inside of the woman who seems broken and i just want to find it i just want to find her truth
there is something about you that most people will never appreciate but you must learn to love yourself even when others can’t
the way women can withstand several storms all at once is something to be inspired by
You’re always giving but who gives to you? You’re always fighting for someone but who fights for you? How is it that you’ve gone so long constantly trying for someone who refuses to try just as much as you do? Who taught you to settle? Was it a parent? Was it your father or mother? You learned to tolerate bullshit so young and so you grow older to seek after more of that. Entertaining relationships that come with dead ends. Falling in love with people who will never catch you. It’s time for you to be the recipient of everything you’ve wasted on people who could never live up to the things they
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Let’s create new ways of thinking, new ways of approaching good relationships and unhealthy ones. Let’s explore this idea that self-love is a love that is worth chasing after and that true romance begins with self. Let us encourage women to seek more of themselves and to only entertain a relationship with someone who encourages harmony and peace. It’s hard for so many women to walk away because their minds have been flooded with ideas on how to continue showing up in relationships that feel more like prison sentences.
I know love has felt unkind but the truth is, the love you’ve come to know has never been anything more than a distraction or a wall, keeping you from seeing the real thing. I know relationships have been difficult, they weigh heavily on your heart as you struggle to move forward but those relationships were more like a version of hell that you didn’t deserve.
You have to remember your own strength and you have to realize that a relationship doesn’t define you. Your value depends strictly on yourself and who you are as an individual, especially while single.
Let go of him by loving yourself more than he’s chosen to. Let go of him by realizing that you are worth more than he can ever comprehend. I guess I’m just hoping that these words will make a difference. Maybe they won’t, maybe they will … no matter what I’ll keep trying. Let go of him because the love you claim to have for him causes you pain. Let go of him by choosing happiness over pain and heartache. When you love yourself, giving yourself to the wrong person is something you’ll try your hardest to avoid. Let go of him and keep yourself!
there’s just something about you that most people will never get your existence is written in a language that most of them will never comprehend you’re a moment, you’re this memory you’re an unforgettable event proof of angels living on earth you’ve always been heaven sent
she is king she could rule without him
women are the fingerprint of strength
i don’t want to say i suffer from depression i thrive through it
she held her own hand she led herself toward the love she felt she deserved
you are not your mistakes you are not the brokenness you’ve felt
all in all you deserve someone who you can be vulnerable with and not worry about being hurt because of it
give me friendship tell me the truth always try to understand me especially when i open up and let’s communicate more give me the freedom of being able to trust you without doubt and i will love you for life
in you lives a version of beauty too profound for words and it doesn’t matter who sees it in you as long as you see it within yourself
she’s learning to leap above heartache she’s learning to rise above the chaos of a broken heart
Women don’t have to be in a relationship to feel like a Queen. I believe that a woman has the ability to crown herself. To hold herself when others refuse to. Choosing herself when others don’t. Loving herself when others are incapable.
Stop trying for someone who refuses to make an effort to help you achieve a peace of mind. Stop letting your ex distract you from being happy without them.
I learned a long time ago that real love begins from within. I think my love-for-self brought me the type of relationship that resembled everything I knew I wanted and deserved. Time alone after an unhealthy relationship helped me rediscover my own self-worth. Doing more of what I loved or spending more time on myself helped me focus in on my strengths, the things I admire about myself and so much more. It also gave me a moment to self-reflect on what I should do to better myself. I think self-love is wrapped up in how we choose to evolve. I think self-love can be cultivated by simply chasing
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Let’s encourage women to be brave enough to walk away instead of placing heavy blame or making them feel guilty for giving up on someone who quit on them a long time ago.
Don’t focus so much on being in a relationship. Focus more on being happy and understand that happiness can be achieved by yourself. The joy that is cultivated from within will bring you everything your heart desires. We’re so focused on getting all the things of the world and living by a certain standard that we’ve forgotten to pursue ourselves and what truly makes us happy.
my mind has seen its worst days it’s been broken in several ways and sometimes i feel like i have yet to find all of its pieces real love would never make you compromise your mental comfort zones and that’s the battle finding someone who cares about the condition of your mind your heart, body and soul
If your loyalty isn’t appreciated, it’s okay to walk away. Loving someone means remaining by their side but there’s only so much you can do with someone who isn’t mature enough to understand your true value.
Most times when a woman has been hurt in the past, everything becomes transparent. She sees with a new version of clarity. She’s heard it all before, she’s lived it more than once. You can attempt to lie to her but she’ll always discover the truth.
Maybe she’s single by choice. Maybe she’s decided that after some time of being overlooked, underappreciated and neglected that she no longer wants to be placed in a situation where she feels like she’s wasting her time. Maybe she’s single because she promised herself to never settle for less than what she’s always wanted and deserves.
never rely on your tongue when your soul is tired and your heart is angry you end up saying hurtful things that you never really meant
I wish he understood that every time he takes you for granted, he’s just teaching you how to live without him.
men play themselves whenever they’re unfaithful to good women
Every woman has a breaking point that causes apologies to be deemed useless, a point where “love” no longer carries weight or meaning. What I’m trying to say is that it doesn’t matter how much she loves you, if you push her to that point, she’ll make up her mind to walk away.
she made pain look beautiful the way she survived the way she chose to move forward even when giving up felt like the best option
maybe you’re the strong one maybe you’ve held on because you’re strong enough to love unconditionally but maybe it’s time to use your strength to move forward with your life
soul relatable II. I think it’s important for you to know that it’s okay to be on your own, be single. There is nothing wrong with being by yourself for awhile. Do what makes you happy even if it means walking away from someone who failed to act on their own potential of being a good partner to you. Destroy the cycle of going back to things that only provide you with reasons to walk away. You can’t pursue happiness while chasing down people who make you miserable.
Real love is certain and always sure. I just hope you’d realize this.
she screamed pain with silence she wore heartache with a smile
first love doesn’t mean a lasting love
she outgrew the person she was in exchange for the one she was always supposed to be
Self-love first. Everything begins with you. Peace and joy can both be obtained without a relationship. A relationship is supposed to enhance everything you’ve cultivated on your own.
Deciding to find someone to love doesn’t mean you have to lose yourself in the process. Loving the right person will never distract you from caring about yourself.
she has always been art and her life is an exhibit of strength and courage
You represent everything that someone has been searching their entire lives for. I hope you find the person who is searching for you.
my pen is a sword too heavy for you to hold too powerful for you to touch too sharp for you to dull