I’ve also heard guys say, ‘I can always count on him! He’ll always be there for me.’ It’s nice hearing them say this so boldly, but often I find that lots of men say they can count on each other but rarely do. It’s like having a car that you never use – so you never know if it’s working. You can shout from the mountaintop that you’ve got the closest friendship ever, but if the evidence doesn’t back that up, it’s simply just a wishful dream.

