I don’t like it when I hear from people only when they want something from me. It’s nice to get a “Hey, just checking in.…” I like to know how folks are doing too. There are people in my life I haven’t physically seen in years, but I let them know what’s going on with me, and because they still feel invested in me, when I need something they do it because they know I am not just using them! We have a real relationship that I took time to cultivate.