We get into trouble when we pit two things against each other that could also coexist. You could be called to a particular job and be addicted to the validation. You could want to marry a certain man or woman and want love in unhealthy ways. You could thrive at a particular school and carry pride in the prestige it offers. It doesn’t mean you chose wrong if (when) you discover your motives are wonky. What it does mean is there is still much to learn, you are desperately in need of Jesus, and here is where you can walk together with him toward health and wholeness.
