Unlike your co-listening group members, who have a primary role of listening, your No Mentor will be no-nonsense, straightforward, and unapologetic. She will not be deterred by glitz or glamor. She is not fooled by shiny objects or mirrored balls. She is relentlessly on your side and has the health of your soul, your family, and your work in mind. Sometimes, this person will convince you to say yes—but this is rare and not the norm.