Here’s something I’ve learned about the critics in our lives: it’s not necessary (or healthy, for that matter) to have people always agree with you, but the critiques to most seriously consider are the ones coming from those who believe in you. If someone who believes in you, your work, your art, or your decisions is pointing out a weakness or trying to make things better, it’s helpful and healthy to consider their words with humility and grace. Resist the urge to close yourself off from them. Instead, open yourself in the presence of Christ and allow his words to partner with their critique
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