A PRACTICE: ASK THE QUESTION If you are facing down a big decision in your life, perhaps your next right thing is to ask yourself the question, In this decision, am I being pushed by fear or led by love? That may offer all the insight you need to take your next right step. In the words of Shaun Groves, there might be a lot of good reasons to act or not to act, but don’t let fear be one of them.