One, knowing what you want builds your confidence. The process of determining what you want more is actually a gift to yourself. It means you’ve taken time to give your inner voice a place at the table. You are allowed to take up space in the room. Knowing what you want will help you to own that. Two, knowing what you want is a gift to the people you love. It means in those areas where you have a choice, you won’t waste your time playing a game you don’t really care to win. It means you will be thoughtful about your yes and your no; you won’t overcommit yourself or your family to things beyond
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