Just because you feel unsettled doesn’t mean you’re not a content person. It doesn’t mean you’re selfish or scattered or that you just need to be more thankful. It could mean that, I guess, but it doesn’t automatically mean that. Maybe instead it means, as Adam McHugh says, that it’s time to listen to your emotions rather than preach at them.3 Maybe your life is trying to tell you something. Maybe it’s time to clear out a little space to listen to what you already know: that it’s time to make a change.