think it has to do with birthing,’ he said. ‘Only women are capable of doing it. Perhaps what you really want is a baby?’ Always, we came back to this.
I think i really dislike the main character. I despise her - her cynicism , her selfishness and her inability to commit.
This is the female version of the dissatisfied white academic character who dominated the booker prize lists in the 90,. The type that uses sex as a method to fill the void within them.
I think commitment takes bravery and self knowledge. Wht this girl needs is a therapist and someone to call her out on her bullshit.

