The first step is always acceptance. Because if you continue to hold unrealistic expectations in your head, it’s going to continue to cause you more pain. Some things, you just have to give up. The expectation that you can change everything is one of them. So, deal with that monster first. Second, once you’ve accepted, then prioritize. What’s most important? This kind of alignment is what I do in every coaching call. Narrow the focus. Look for the one thing that will make the biggest impact on the system. Find the keystone.
