You must feel as if this pain will never end. I’m so sorry that all this happened to you. This must seem like more than you can handle. Don’t feel that you need to be strong when you are hurting and need help. It’s OK to cry. Or be mad. Or feel numb. Anything you are feeling is OK. Some things just don’t make sense. I don’t have anything to say to make things better for you right now, but I will be here with you. I am happy to help in any way I can, but I don’t need to do something for you to make myself feel better. I will offer help,

