On the other side of the Self pivot, your world changes. As you emerge behind your eyes, you begin to see behind the eyes of others. You notice people noticing you; you notice people noticing you noticing them. You sense a kind of awareness that binds us all together. You begin to find that you’re making more thoughtful connections with people all the time—in the grocery store, in the elevator, at work, or at home. You will notice an old woman struggling to push her shopping cart through the store, bravely facing her own physical limitations; a waiter taking care to ask a customer what he
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