the moment we say ‘F**k It’ we stop obsessing about things which are not important. ‘F**k It’ is an expression that says that – ultimately – nothing matters that much. Which, of course, it doesn’t. I knew this, intellectually, but in my day-to-day life everything mattered a lot. What people thought of me, how I was doing at work, how fat I was, how bad my hair was, my overdrafts and credit cards, my future, my love life, or lack of … it all swam around in my head in a giant soup of self-created misery.
