This is another big No-No, says Hussey, who explains that women are too quick to meet someone and find a way of making him into ‘Mr Right’ in their heads. By doing that we’re allowing ourselves to fall for someone before he’s even proved himself, and our keenness makes us look like we are of ‘low value’. He says we have to remember, even when we like someone, that they still have to prove themselves to us.

