Susan says that we are only fooling ourselves when we put things off. She calls it the ‘when/then’ game – we tell ourselves we’ll approach the guy we like when we’re slimmer or we’ll apply for the promotion when we have more experience. We think that fear will go if we just wait for the right time but when we get to the right time we find more excuses. Doing something new is always going to be scary. The only way for it to stop being scary is to do it.
