OPRAH: I love when you say, “When you live in trust and faith, truly live it; what everyone else says and does becomes irrelevant.” IYANLA: It really does. You don’t even hear it. But then again, that means that you’ve got to be willing sometimes to stand alone. You’ve got to be willing to piss some people off. You’ve got to be willing to look different. Sound different. Be different. And those are risks that many of us are not willing to take. Because we don’t understand God. You trust yourself by knowing who you are. You trust God by understanding God’s nature.