“Not just middle way between male and female. Middle way of being. Middle way of living with what is hard and who do not accept you.” “How do you do that?” “You keep remember: all is change.” “All what?” “All life. You are never finish, never done. Never become, always becoming. You know? Life is change so is always okay you are not there yet. Is like this for you and Poppy and everyone. The people who do not understand are change. The people who afraid are change. There is no before and no after because change is what is life. You live in change, in in between.”