Things My Son Needs to Know About The World: From the New York Times Bestselling Author of Anxious People and My Friends

by Fredrik Backman

But I’m trying to learn. And I hope you’ll know more than I did. That you’ll never fear justice. Never misinterpret the fight for equality as a war between the sexes. That you’ll never believe that a woman doesn’t deserve the same rights or freedoms or chances that you do. I hope you’ll know that, above all, most people are not looking for special treatment, most people don’t want everything to be the same for everyone, most people just want things to be FAIR for everyone. I hope you’ll get that, way faster than I did. And I hope that you’ll never get it into your head that just because a woman deserves every opportunity you do, you have to stop holding the door open for her when you can. That you’ll never think it’s impossible to be equals and behave like a gentleman at the same time. Because, as your grandmothers will teach you, that’s rubbish.