A lot of people told her, Let me know if there’s something I can do to help, which was kind, but clearly said more for them than for her. Sure, she could use help, but she didn’t have the emotional steadiness or ability just then to choose and allocate helpful tasks for them. The last thing she wanted to do was call around and be disappointed by what people were unwilling or unable to do. On the days when she lacked the energy or willpower to cook, she just needed dinner to magically appear, and not feel as if she’d been demanding or needy.
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