If your judgment still believes someone wronged you, remind yourself that this was a mistake on their part due to one of three reasons: They were not objectively seeing the world as it is and were seeing it only through their eyes, and therefore did not even realize they were wronging you. You, knowingly or unknowingly, wronged them. They in return sought vengeance (an eye for an eye) as they do not know any better. They are the type of being who derives joy from the misery of others and wronged you on purpose, once again for a lack of not knowing any better.
