Just to make it even more complicated, how do you label relationships between two transgender people? Does identity supersede sex at birth? Does surgical status trump identity when assigning labels? If a man has been only with male-identified individuals, but some of them are transgender, do they count as bi or gay? Do you get to keep your gold star gay (or straight) award if you’ve slept with a transgender person? I, and many others, would argue that gender identity matters most.
