The Happiness Advantage: How a Positive Brain Fuels Success in Work and Life
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with each victory, our goalposts of success keep getting pushed further and further out, so that happiness gets pushed over the horizon.
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More than a decade of groundbreaking research in the fields of positive psychology and neuroscience has proven in no uncertain terms that the relationship between success and happiness works the other way around.
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Thanks to this cutting-edge science, we now know that happiness is the precursor to success, not merely the result.
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The students who were so focused on the stress and the pressure—the ones who saw learning as a chore—were missing out on all the opportunities right in front of them. But those who saw attending Harvard as a privilege seemed to shine even brighter.
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Depression rates today are ten times higher than they were in 1960.3
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Fifty years ago, the mean onset age of depression was 29.5 years old. Today, it is almost exactly half that: 14.5 years old.
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The typical approach to understanding human behavior has always been to look for the average behavior or outcome. But in my view this misguided approach has created what I call the “cult of the average” in the behavioral sciences.
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If we study merely what is average, we will remain merely average.
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Conventional psychology consciously ignores outliers because they don’t fit the pattern. I’ve sought to do the opposite: Instead of deleting these outliers, I want to learn from them.
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If all you strive for is diminishing the bad, you’ll only attain the average and you’ll miss out entirely on the opportunity to exceed the average.
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You can study gravity forever without learning how to fly.
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what we spend our time and mental energy focusing on can indeed become our reality.
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In 1998, Martin Seligman, then president of the American Psychological Association, announced that it was finally time to shift the traditional approach to psychology and start to focus more on the positive side of the curve. That we needed to study what works, not just what is broken. Thus, “positive psychology” was born.
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99 percent of Harvard students do not graduate in the top 1 percent.
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Countless studies have found that social relationships are the best guarantee of heightened well-being and lowered stress, both an antidote for depression and a prescription for high performance.
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We become more successful when we are happier and more positive.
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It turns out that our brains are literally hardwired to perform at their best not when they are negative or even neutral, but when they are positive.
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Yet in today’s world, we ironically sacrifice happiness for success only to lower our brains’ success rates.
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not just how to move us up to average, but how to move the entire average up.
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THE SEVEN PRINCIPLES
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The Happiness Advantage—Because positive brains have a biological advantage over brains that are neutral or negative, this principle teaches us how to retrain our brains to capitalize on positivity and improve our productivity and performance.
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The Fulcrum and the Lever—How we experience the world, and our ability to succeed within it, constantly changes based on our mindset. This principle teaches us how we can adjust our mindset (our fulcrum) in a way that gives us the power (the lever) to be more fulfilled and successful.
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The Tetris Effect—When our brains get stuck in a pattern that focuses on stress, negativity, and failure, we set ourselves up to fail. This principle teaches us how to retrain our brains to spot patterns of possibil...
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Falling Up—In the midst of defeat, stress, and crisis, our brains map different paths to help us cope. This principle is about finding the mental path that not only leads us up out of failure or suffering, but te...
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The Zorro Circle—When challenges loom and we get overwhelmed, our rational brains can get hijacked by emotions. This principle teaches us how to regain control by focusing first on small, manageable goals, and then gradua...
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The 20-Second Rule—Sustaining lasting change often feels impossible because our willpower is limited. And when willpower fails, we fall back on our old habits and succumb to the path of least resistance. This principle shows how, by making small energy adjustments, we can re...
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Social Investment—In the midst of challenges and stress, some people choose to hunker down and retreat within themselves. But the most successful people invest in their friends, peers, and family members to propel themselves forward. This principle teaches us how to invest more in one of ...
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happiness leads to success in nearly every domain, including work, health, friendship, sociability, creativity, and energy.
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Happiness is not the belief that we don’t need to change; it is the realization that we can.
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Brain change, once thought impossible, is now a well-known fact, one that is supported by some of the most rigorous and cutting-edge research in neuroscience.4
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For untold generations, we have been led to believe that happiness orbited around success. That if we work hard enough, we will be successful, and only if we are successful will we become happy.
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of positive psychology, we are learning that the opposite is true. When we are happy—when our mindset and mood are positive—we are smarter, more motivated, and thus more successful.
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Happiness is the center, and success revolves around it.
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Happiness implies a positive mood in the present and a positive outlook for the future.
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Martin Seligman, the pioneer in positive psychology, has broken it down into three, measurable components: pleasure, engagement, and meaning.
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those who pursue all three routes lead the fullest lives.
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the most accurate term for happiness, then, is the one Aristotle used: eudaimonia, which translates not directly to “happiness” but to “human flourishing.”
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happiness is the joy we feel striving after our potential.
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meta-analysis of happiness research that brought together the results of over 200 scientific studies on nearly 275,000 people—and found that happiness leads to success in nearly every domain of our lives, including marriage, health, friendship, community involvement, creativity, and, in particular, our jobs, careers, and businesses.
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happy workers have higher levels of productivity, produce higher sales, perform better in leadership positions, and receive higher performance ratings and higher pay.
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less likely to take sick days, to quit, or to become burned out.
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As the authors of the survey were able to say conclusively, “study after study shows that happiness precedes important outcomes and indicators of thriving.”
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One study, for example, measured the initial level of positive emotions in 272 employees, then followed their job performance over the next eighteen months.8 And they found that even after controlling for other factors, those who were happier at the beginning ended up receiving better evaluations and higher pay later
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Happiness can improve our physical health, which in turn keeps us working faster and longer and therefore makes us more likely to succeed.
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healthy employees will be more productive on the job.
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Research shows that unhappy employees take more sick days, staying home an average of 1.25 more days per month, or 15 extra sick days a year.
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Instead of narrowing our actions down to fight or flight as negative emotions do, positive ones broaden the amount of possibilities we process, making us more thoughtful, creative, and open to new ideas.
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Positive emotions flood our brains with dopamine and serotonin, chemicals that not only make us feel good, but dial up the learning centers of our brains to higher levels. They help us organize new information, keep that information in the brain longer, and retrieve it faster later on. And they enable us to make and sustain more neural connections, which allows us to think more quickly and creatively, become more skilled at complex analysis and problem solving, and see and invent new ways of doing things.
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Smart companies cultivate these kinds of working environments because every time employees experience a small burst of happiness, they get primed for creativity and innovation.
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The children who were primed to be happy significantly outperformed the others, completing the task both more quickly and with fewer errors.
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