But an equally dangerous conceit keeps us from taking our seats as broken-open warriors. That is, an insidious need to see ourselves as the only one capable to lead. So, there we sit, alone in our struggles, burdened by the weariness of all the intellectual and externally generated demands, decrying the inability of anyone else in the organization, the family, the state, or—dare I name it—the relationship, to make a damn decision.
