My work isn’t to save anyone from the heartbreak of everyday—not my clients, not my children, not my friends, not my loves. If I were I to manage to pull it off, I would end up standing in the way of their finding equanimity. My work is to bear witness to the growth of those whom I love and care for. My work is to stand shoulder to shoulder, as when two men sat on a rooftop and found their way to the love, safety, belonging, and equanimity of brokenhearted warriors.