And I didn’t know it, but apparently, after I was supposed to dropped the rose, the people who attended the graveside service were to come up and do the same thing. Say good-bye and drop a flower. But they don’t. They follow my lead. When people start coming up to me to give me their condolences, most all of them are also carrying two flowers. And I realize I’ve started a trend. I look around the cemetery grounds and see that nearly everyone mingling about is taking two
