Some EIPs will get huffy if you want to analyze things instead of immediately acquiescing. They are especially likely to feel betrayed if you suggest that their reactions might be causing some of their problems. They make it an issue of lack of love if you don’t agree straightaway to give them what they want. But you still can tell them you’re not sure their impulsive solution is the best answer, and because they’re asking for your help, you want to take time to think out other possible solutions with them.
