toxic people do not care about the results of their actions because they are driven by an all-consuming need for fuel. This need for them is so overwhelming that any consideration of the results of their actions falls a distant second to their need to secure their fuel. Our toxic family members leave behind a legacy of pain, chaos, and confusion. They want our focus to be on them at all times. They crave, need, and want this attention. Without our emotional reactions, our fears, or our tears, or without us pouring our love and neediness all over them, they cannot experience their own
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