With the Fire on High

by Elizabeth Acevedo

sometimes focusing on what you can control is the only way to lessen the pang in your chest when you think about the things you can’t.

Taking risks and making choices in spite of fear—it’s what makes our life story compelling.”

I wouldn’t always have been able to say that to someone. I was so quiet and shy and surprised to get any attention at all. But the toddler books all suggest moms practice direct and clear language, managing expectations, giving explicit instructions, et cetera. Sometimes I think boys are just like babies when it comes to something they want—and they need to be told no, firmly and without qualification.

I don’t feel uncomfortable for working, at a food spot or otherwise. I’ve had a lot of things to feel ashamed about and I’ve learned most of them are other people’s problems, not mine.”