Good Vibes, Good Life: How Self-Love Is the Key to Unlocking Your Greatness

by Vex King

Change the way you think, feel, speak and act, and you begin to change your world.

By loving yourself, you’ll live a life you love.

If smiling for no reason feels too strange, then find a reason to smile.

Drama is for TV, not for real life. Don’t play a part in someone else’s episode in which they’re the only star.

‘Greatness starts with being grateful.’

The more you count your blessings, the more blessings you’ll have to count.

Ignoring negative emotions is like keeping poison in your system. Learn to understand everything that you feel. The aim isn’t to force positive thoughts, but to transform the negative ones into something healthier, so you can feel better.

‘I love myself and that’s enough. The love I give myself will be given back to me by someone who truly cares about me.’

We hold our phones more than we hold real conversations,

It’s not selfish or a sign of weakness to distance yourself or walk away from those who constantly bring down your vibe. Life is about balance. It’s about spreading kindness, but it’s also about not letting anyone take that kindness away from you.

Your longest relationship in life is with yourself.

None of us is perfect, so no relationship is perfect.

a relationship should add value to your life and bring you good vibes the majority of the time.

Give up the habit of being a people-pleaser and start pleasing you!

the longer you stay in harmful conditions, the more you sabotage your own life.

If I asked you to name all the things you love, how long would it take for you to name yourself?

We learn to care about how others feel about us but avoid focusing on how we feel about ourselves.

The fact that you have a body at all is incredible.

Your personal beauty isn’t for everyone, and that’s fine.

Ignore what everyone else is doing. Your life isn’t about everyone else; it’s about you. Instead of focusing on their path, pay attention to your own. That’s where your journey is taking place.

After all, you can buy surgery but you can’t purchase a new personality.

If you can’t change a situation, change your perception of it. That’s where your personal power lies. Either be controlled – or be in control.

Sometimes we have to sacrifice small things to get our hands on the bigger blessings in life.

Small steps are fine, because they’ll lead to bigger things.