Good Vibes, Good Life: How Self-Love Is the Key to Unlocking Your Greatness

by Vex King

Your goal isn’t to get rid of negative thoughts; it’s to change your response to them.

Escape your mental limitations. Don’t spend your life being imprisoned by a belief system that limits your potential and prevents your dreams from coming true.

Our beliefs are like a lens through which we view life; we see what we convince ourselves is true.

Repeating affirmations is a conscious process. It’s the act of sending instructions to your subconscious mind. Once these beliefs are planted, your subconscious mind will do everything it can to bring these ideas into fruition.

When you act as if the goal is already the truth, your subconscious mind believes that it is and acts accordingly.

Words can hurt, help or heal. There’s power in everything you write and say. Your message is significant; be wise with it.

If you’re unsure about what you want, you’ll end up with a lot of things you’re unsure of.

Setting the right goal is everything. It has to reflect what you deeply desire – not what you think you should want.

You’re the author of your future. Write about what you desire and live your story.

When you write down your goals, you turn your intentions into something tangible. Define them in detail, and this will help you to stay focused so you don’t lose your way.

What becomes real in your mind will become real in your life.

The brain and the nervous system can’t tell the difference between what’s imagined and what’s real.

When I use this technique, I get confirmation that I’m doing it effectively when I start to feel a little tingly. That is, I begin to feel as if it’s actually happening and it fills me with excitement.

Don’t worry about how it’s going to happen, otherwise you’ll begin to create limitations. Just be certain about what you want and the entire Universe will rearrange itself for you. Whatever the path you might be on right now, it’ll support you. It’ll provide you with the signs to get you to where you want to be.

Intention without action is just a wish. A goal only comes to life when you decide to pursue it. The Universe is always supporting you, but you must be willing to do your part in the manifestation process.

It’s not about where you’re at. It’s about what you’re doing about where you’re at.

But so many people go through their lives expecting change when they’re doing the same things every day. They feed all this positive energy via their thoughts, words and emotions, but take no action, which is vibratory in itself.

Working smarter is essential for effective productivity, but even finding a solution to work smarter requires a lot of effort. We must come to terms with the idea that some things have to be done the difficult way.

Step out of your comfort zone and face your fears. Growth takes place when you’re challenged, not when you’re comfortable.

We must be consistent as we strive to achieve our goals.

‘We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.’ ARISTOTLE

The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is simple: extraordinary people will get things done even when they don’t feel like it, because they’re fully committed to their goals.

Things are always easier when you’re in the mood to do them, but if you want to live a greater life than the average person, you have to commit the same effort even when you’re not.

You don’t need it all figured out. The more you think you do, the more you’ll procrastinate and fear moving forward. Have courage and start now, even if you start small. Just go for it!

If the goals still seem big after you’ve made them smaller, break them down further.

No matter how much you worry, your problem isn’t going to improve. Be wiser with your attention and energy. You can only step up in the world once you put your anxieties, fears and worries under your feet.

We make fear-based assumptions all the time. Unfortunately, when we feed these assumptions they expand into our experience.

Sometimes all we have is our faith – our faith in the fact that things are going to get better. Hang on to it and keep believing, even if that means you’re the only one who does.

Embrace good vibes and learn to let things flow. There’s no need to force outcomes. Once you’re in harmony with the Universe, what’s meant to be yours will come to you.

Once you’ve learned to hone your manifestation skills, you must let go of your attachment to the goal. By trying to force or control the outcome, you breed resistance by feeding fear and doubt. When your heart is in something, only good things can follow.

Life doesn’t battle you because you’re weak, it battles you because you’re strong. It knows that if it gives you pain, you’ll realize your power.

Life will test you just before it will bless you.

Some of the best changes in life result from the most painful experiences. We need to experience low points in our life in order to gain the wisdom, strength and knowledge we need to appreciate the high points.

The damage is divine. There’s substance to your scars. There’s wisdom in your wounds. There’s purpose behind your pain.

The next time you pray for your situation to change, realize that you’re in that situation so that you can change.

Just saying that you’ve learned your lesson isn’t always enough – you have to prove it.

So pay attention to the warning signs. You’re always being guided by the Universe to live authentically and purposefully, and to experience the greater things in life. But if something doesn’t go the way you wanted, ask yourself what you can learn from it – because every bad experience has a learning outcome to be taken on board. Ask yourself what changes you need to make. And don’t mask unhealthy choices with optimism when you know they’re not right, or let emotional cravings and temporary comfort inspire you to venture for more pain.

If you keep taking a bite out of the cake that harmed you, you no longer fall victim to it, you become a hungry volunteer.

You came here loaded with potential, ability, gifts, wisdom, love and intelligence to share with the world. You’re here to make the world a better place. You have a purpose, and until you start living it you’ll have a void inside you; a feeling you can’t quite explain, but that knows you’re meant for more.

Life is greater if you live with purpose. When you find a meaningful reason for doing what you do, you’ll feel complete.

The things that you’re naturally drawn towards aren’t random; they’re picking you out in the same way that you’re pursuing them. It really is as simple as this.

You were created with intention. You’re here to help, love, assist, save and entertain. You’re here to inspire and put a smile on someone’s face. You’re here to make a difference. You wouldn’t be on this planet, at this time, if you didn’t have something to offer.

There’s a purpose behind your existence, and when you discover what it is, you’ll not only change the dynamics of the world, but also experience abundance in all areas of your life.

Money is merely energy – neither good nor bad, and unlimited in our infinitely abundant Universe. Make money to assist you, not to complete you.

We’re led to believe that there’s only ever a limited supply of what we want, yet the truth is that abundance is infinitely available and provided by the Universe.

Happiness doesn’t come from other people, from places or things. It comes from within.

To sustain happiness, you must work towards self-mastery. It’s an inward journey that requires substantial spiritual growth. Choosing empowering thoughts over limiting ones should become your natural way of thinking.