Good Vibes, Good Life: How Self-Love Is the Key to Unlocking Your Greatness

by Vex King

The greatness mentality means living a life without limits, where there are infinite possibilities.

It’s important to recognize that it’s not unjust to let go of those who show no concern for you.

Self-love is about applying this to yourself: having your own best interests at heart.

The Universe responds to your vibration. It’ll return whatever energy you put out.

Change the way you think, feel, speak and act, and you begin to change your world.

This means that our thoughts, emotions, words and actions must align with what we want.

If we feel good we’ll think good thoughts, and as a result we’ll take positive actions.

Surround yourself with people who are vibin’ higher than you. Be around people who are feeling better than you are. Energy is contagious.

If you can act like someone who feels good, your internal state will change and your vibration will rise.

Sometimes you have to unplug yourself from the world for a moment, so you can reset yourself.

‘I love myself and that’s enough. The love I give myself will be given back to me by someone who truly cares about me.’

Simplify your circle of friends. Keep those who add value to your life; remove those who don’t.

Notice the people who celebrate your achievements, wish you a happy birthday, get excited about your goals and encourage you to do better without losing your sense of self. Those are the people worth keeping around.

It’s okay to move on from people who aren’t giving you back the same energy. Whether they’re friends, family or lovers, don’t be afraid to let go of relationships that no longer serve a purpose in your life. Dead weight will weigh you down and feel exhausting to carry around.

If you need to cut someone off because of continued destructive behaviour, then do it with no regrets.

Protect your own energy first.

If you keep trying to satisfy others, you’ll never keep up. In the end, you’ll satisfy neither them nor yourself.

rather than trying to control external events, concentrate on controlling how your mind responds to them.

Don’t worry about how it’s going to happen, otherwise you’ll begin to create limitations. Just be certain about what you want and the entire Universe will rearrange itself for you.

Embrace good vibes and learn to let things flow. There’s no need to force outcomes. Once you’re in harmony with the Universe, what’s meant to be yours will come to you.

rejections are just redirections to better things.

Send that text. Go on that date. Make that move. Apply for that job. Start that business. Don’t be afraid of rejection, struggle or failure. There’s no shame in trying. Love, learn and grow through every risk you take towards fulfilment.