The Lie: A Memoir of Two Marriages, Catfishing & Coming Out

by William Dameron

You told me that we didn’t make love anymore because of my weight. You made me hate myself, Bill. You fucking ruined me!”

What a dick!

The holes in our psyche want so desperately to be filled, and it’s the charged emotions, the relationship currency, that provide the stuffing.

What happens when you are riddled with holes of insecurity and the key to your survival is to become somebody else? You catfish yourself.

though the cure is the truth, it can be the most painful therapy.