Fizzy tells me that on OkCupid, a dude might say something like, ‘I take care of myself and am looking for a woman who does the same,’ meaning, ‘I love unrealistic body standards on women.’ Here, they are pulling no punches. Maybe it’s because for some of them English is a second language, but there truly is no hidden subtext to, ‘I don’t want fat wife.’
Sounds like most dating sites.
