IDEAS FOR CULTIVATING COOPERATION Problem solving with our toddler • Ask, “How can we solve the problem?” • Make a checklist. INVOLVE THE CHILD • Give age-appropriate choices. • Give them information. • Use one word. • Get their agreement. TALK IN A WAY THAT HELPS THEM LISTEN • Use positive language. • Speak with a respectful tone and attitude. • Ask them for help. • Say “yes.” • Use humor. • If our child is going through a “no” phase, adjust our language. • Show them. Manage expectations • Have age-appropriate expectations and be prepared. • Try to wait until they have finished before making
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