Building and maintaining a sexual connection that meets everyone’s needs is also a shared goal that can be a priority in a relationship. Prioritizing that connection can mean setting aside a certain amount of time for intimacy, or committing to trying and learning new hobbies or new ways to connect. Treating it like an exciting, ongoing exploration is a wonderful way to prevent sexuality from getting stagnant, and to make enough space for experimentation with which you can find new things you enjoy. And this is another area where the journey is (at least) half the fun. We don’t want to set
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