There is so much to do before a funeral can be held that sometimes you wonder whether the whole process has been expressly designed to keep you busy to distract you from your grief. Alongside registering the death, arranging the funeral director, obtaining copies of the death certificate and putting a notice in the newspaper, there are so many decisions to be made. Both my parents’ funerals took place at a crematorium chapel, which meant choosing flowers and hymns and writing a piece for the minister to deliver. Did we need funeral cars, and if so, how many? There was a casket to be selected
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