The practice starts with meditation together and after perhaps the sharing of a cardamon seed. Slowly the dance evolves . . . the dance in which every breath . . . touch . . . movement . . . even thought . . . is totally savoured (compassionately understood) by the one consciousness that you are sharing. You are both man and you are both woman . . . and there is an act in which two bodies are involved, but the act (like two hands clapping) is a unity experienced by a single consciousness.