Every boy needs a crew; every man needs camaraderie and a safe space to not only express his emotions but also release them, venting his cares to someone who cares. Sadly, a man’s concerns are often heard as complaining, just as a dog’s bark is annoying when no one sees trouble. Both warnings are rarely heeded before “the thief” breaks in and steals, kills, and destroys everything, even the dog. As men, we must take care of ourselves by truthfully expressing ourselves with other men we can trust. No matter our age, transparency will set us free.