Love for Imperfect Things: A Buddhist monk's guide to mindfulness and resisting the urge to strive for perfectionism

by Haemin Sunim

“Be good to yourself first, then to others.”

It seems that “good” sometimes refers to a person who thinks too much of others to be able to express his or her own will.

Remember that the most attractive quality is your confidence.

Listening openly, patiently, and attentively is one of the most significant expressions of love.