The pressure on moms to breastfeed can be immense. The rhetoric makes it seem like this is the most important thing you can—and need—to do to set your child up for success. Breastfeeding is magic! Milk is liquid gold! This just isn’t right. Yes, if you want to breastfeed, great! But while there are some short-term benefits for your baby, if you don’t want to nurse, or if it doesn’t work out, it’s not a tragedy for your baby, or for you. It is almost certainly worse if you spend a year sitting around feeling bad about not nursing.
