Writer Malcolm Gladwell also specializes in parables—and the appeal of this form is reflected in the amazing sales of his books and the high number of views on his TED Talks. His most popular talk is, believe it or not, a tale about the development of new forms of spaghetti sauce. But he uses it as a parable for the insight that different people want very different things but often don’t have the language to say what they want, until you find the right questions to ask them.

