When you blame your parents, you are actually giving your power away. You are letting them decide if they want to accept responsibility, or not. If they are not reflective, you will end up chasing an apology that you are never going to get. To resolve your pain, most likely you will be required to end the blame game. You have to be in touch with your own anger and hurt feelings, and then let them go. If this is not possible, you will have to be the one to let go of your pride and ask for help… from your parents.
