The girl with the locs at Ava Lounge, the one who danced with me for two songs and then forgot about me for three years, is now my wife. We have a daughter now too. She was born on November 30, 2015, and her name is Zoe Vivienne, after Mom. She is sublime and surreal. She exists now and didn’t exist before and only exists now because of us, and that’s still fucking insane. I’ve literally told her, more than once, as I hold her in my arms in disbelief, that she is fucking insane, and I say this to my baby daughter because I am possibly a bad father. And she stares confused, and then asks me to
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